In the age of the internet, finding an escort is easier than ever. You can find all kinds of escorts online, specialized in any fetish you want and with the look you like. However, finding a good escort can also be risky and dangerous. You need to know the language of escorts, know where to keep your money and how long you can stay with her. Fortunately, it is not difficult to learn how to find the best escort for just about any price you want to pay.
Part 1 of 2: Finding an escort
Step 1. Find a reputable escort site
These will have all kinds of escort ads for you to check out. You can tell if you're on a good site if the bulk of the ads are posted monthly. Avoid sites like Backpage.com, where escorts post daily ads instead of monthly. The reason for this is because daily ads are very cheap and therefore attract lesser level escorts.
Step 2. Find an independent escort or an escort agency
Agencies can be nice because they expect a certain degree of consistency from the escorts. Once you've found an agency that appeals to you, an employee can make recommendations tailored to your personal preferences. The disadvantage of desks is that you will have to pay a little more because a large fee for the desk is passed on in the price.
Step 3. Refine the search by the type of escort you are looking for
Here are some categories: mature, brunette, blonde, big boobs, VIP, and so on. You can classify on the basis of age, physical characteristics and/or height. This is also the time to decide whether you want to book a meeting, a date or a full night.
Step 4. Set your budget
Remember you get what you pay for. If you only have $100-$200 to spend, you might want to consider saving some money. Once you've clicked on a girl that appeals to you, scroll down to see her price. If she doesn't fit your budget then there's no point wasting your time reading her ad.
- Do not try to negotiate the price with an escort. If the price is not listed, it may be a bit more expensive.
- If you've found an escort that really appeals to you and she fits into your budget, make sure there are no additional fees or "tips" once you arrive.
Step 5. Make sure this is the girl in the picture
Escorts who use fake photos will never admit that it is in fact not them. Many girls who use fake photos will blur their faces, but many beautiful escorts who use real photos will also blur their faces because of their privacy. Other customers will leave comments so you can see if this is the girl in the photo.
Use a photo-tracking service. This will make it possible to see if her photos were stolen from an adult website or from a professional photo shoot (such as Playboy)
Step 6. Google her stage name
This way you will be able to see how long she has been working in this industry and how she is valued by customers. If she only does this for a few weeks or months, you are at great risk. Google her phone number and email to see if they are genuine and legit.
There are all kinds of review sites that give escorts a score based on appearance, personality and openness. Some good sites for this include TheEroticReview.com and TopKitten.com
Step 7. Discreetly discuss plans and options
Once you've chosen an escort, make sure you get an idea of what will happen when you're together. If you are discussing her services over the phone, make sure you know the correct code words for the services you want.
Rude or filthy words can make her hang up and ignore your calls. You may also talk to her manager on the phone, so remember that the woman answering your questions may not be the girl you will meet
Step 8. Find the meeting place she will tell you
A cheap motel in a bad neighborhood might be a bad idea. Make sure the parking lot is not visible from the street if it is close to your home or office.
Part 2 of 2: Meeting an escort
Step 1. Be careful when you arrive
When you arrive at the agreed location, you first have to look around. If you see anything suspicious (lots of people walking around, cleaning or doing maintenance looking at you) or if you get a strange feeling, just walk away. Remember that most hotels clean in the morning and maintenance is rarely performed at night. Be safe and smart.
Step 2. Hide your wallet in your car
Do this before arriving at the location. You don't want a person with bad intentions to see you do this. Just bring your mobile phone, cash and your keys. You never know if the escort will rob you of all your precious possessions.
Step 3. Show your money to the escort
When you enter the agreed location, you must show her the agreed amount and put it clearly on the table or on the bedside table. This money is solely for her time (not for illegal services). Never try to exchange money for sex. This is illegal.
Step 4. Check the legal status of the escort
Ask her if she is at least 18 and make sure she is licensed to provide escort services in the state or country you are in. If she answers no to either or both of these questions, then you are breaking the law. It could be a police officer or a minor traffic side.
Step 5. Wash yourself if prompted
Some escorts will ask you to wash your hands or even take a shower. Taking a shower can mean she'll run off with your money if you're not paying attention, so you can say you've already showered (you should, before and after the meeting anyway). An established escort is less likely to run off with your money, but keep this in mind when picking up a new girl or someone with no reviews or online history. Maybe you can take your cash to the bathroom if it doesn't offend her. Take your wallet, your mobile phone and your keys to the bathroom.
Step 6. Make yourself comfortable
Once she sees your money and sees that you are serious, she should have no problem undressing in front of you, which is a legal adult activity. However, sex laws vary from country to country and state to state. Make sure to check the local laws beforehand.
Step 7. Use escort language
Escorts are very careful when talking about money, sex, and so on. They will use code words such as 'donations' or 'love experiences'. Make sure to use the same code words when talking to her. Never ask for sex or sexual acts directly. Use terms such as "getting comfortable" or "getting to know each other better."
Step 8. Leave immediately after the experience is over
This is important because the last thing you want is for the escort to steal your belongings while you are sleeping. In addition, you will want to leave the agreed location and move your car so that no one discovers it. Don't forget to leave at a different time than your escort. You are not supposed to leave together.
- Only bring the exact agreed amount to the meeting point.
- Always call the escort by her stage name. Don't use terms like "baby" or "sweetheart."
- Get to know the escort in advance. You will get a chance to talk to her online. Ask her what she does and what her price is for it.
- Look around; inspect the room. Often escorts let people hide under the bed who can then go through your pockets while you have a 'love experience'. Showers in the bathroom are also a popular place for robbers to hide.
- Keep calm if someone tries to attack you; usually they just want your money so give it to them without making a problem and do what they ask.
- Check the escort's age in advance. You may be dealing with a minor. There are much tougher penalties for this.
- Always keep an eye out for suspicious things. You don't want to get into a police undercover operation.
- Please try not to perform sexual acts while on a date with an escort or you will be breaking the law. Prostitution is illegal in most places. Paying for sex can lead to legal charges.